Swinging Contact Etiquette
As many of you are new to the swinging scene, it
has been suggested that perhaps some guidance on contact
etiquette would be useful.
Advertisers:
- Please respond to all e-mails you receive
from respondents.
- Most of them will have spent time plucking up
courage to write to you, and time thinking of the right thing to
say to get you to notice them.
- It does not need to be a long letter, a short
note saying something along the lines of "thank you for your
response, but you do not match what I am currently looking for,
better luck next time" will at least let the respondent know
they have failed. I know that I for one check my mail eagerly
after I send every response, hoping that someone has written
back to me.
- If you are an escort advertising for business
please advertise only in the escort section. If you are an
escort advertising for play friends please use a different
e-mail address from that used for your business. If I am made
aware of people being asked for payment when responding to ads
outside the escort area I will delete the ad.
Respondents:
- Always be polite.
- Tell the advertiser what you like about their
ad.
- Tell them how you think you will meet their
requirements.
- If you enclose a picture show your face -
most people like to see the person, rather than a piece
of genitalia. If they like the look of you, they will then ask
for another picture, a nude one if they want it. (some people do
want nude pictures from the start, but they will usually say so
in their ad).
- Keep the language clean, match your response
to the ad. Don't go straight in with a hardcore letter.
- If you are turned down by an advertiser,
don't keep contacting them - you are not going to make any
friends by being a nuisance or abusive. Just move on to the next
advertiser.
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